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What is your new life going to look like, and how do you start moving in that direction?
"You might think that there must be something wrong with you if you couldn't make this relationship work," Alberti says.
But chances also are that although you might not be able to do whatever your fantasy is, there may be other changes that ARE within your reach.
So don't reject the idea of any change, just because you can't make every change.
"You may feel remorse for what you did or didn't do, or wonder what you did wrong.
Don't dwell on those feelings, but make room for them," Falk says. There is an empty space where something once filled it up, even if that something may not have been desirable." Don't tote that heavy baggage from your previous relationship into your new life.